Music And Me.


I decided to take a break from my laptop to see what my proud country’s  television stations had for me.

I tuned in to METRO TV to catch a glimpse of the great match between our own Accra lads,Olympics, which now has ‘Olele’ (our forgotten goalkeeper) in goal post against the herdsmen from the North who are striving for a place in the league. It was an eyesore.

I’ve glued myself to foreign soccer that just watching them play I remembered those days when I used to play football behind that old woman’s house who used to chase after my friends and I. They played the same way just like us, no professionalism. I wondered if it was really future National team players who were at play.

Getting frustrated, I tuned to Adom TV to watch a local movie which will take the pains and sorrows away. After all, rumor has it that our local movies keep the dead alive through laughter. But to my surprise,after  ten minutes of watching, my sorrows got to another higher level. Everything about the movie was disgusting.

TvAfrica had this preacher on and I am not a fan of media preaching so I skipped. Tv3, my favourite station had the  repeat of the audition of Ghana’s Strongest which took place in Tamale. I wasn’t interested so i skipped for my muscles cant even lift a half filled gallon of water.

Gtv,the station of the nation had one of it’s irregular programs on display.

For the three Crystals, their programmes are always predictable even without the programme lineups, local movies on one, preaching, more like for money on another, and talk shows on the other.

KTV and TopTv which I don’t get clearly got me angrier and wondered what is happening in my country.

UTV the station of the people, the station almost everyone likes didn’t have anything better to offer. Just another documentary which wasn’t interesting one bit.

Indeed,frustration built inside gradually. I thought my country could be my line sort of happiness but i was wrong. It worsened the woes and I don’t think I’ll forget it.

Just then I remembered I had a phone with a whole different genre of music. I took that option and to my uttermost surprise music was doing me good.

I had betrayed the friend which had been with me all these years. I also remembered for sometime now,”music has been my only escape from all the bullshit in life.” What a bad friend I had been.

Aside everything, music helped me to be where I am now. The bond between music and me is stronger than the covalent bond. If you feel neglected and all is lost I’ll be up counting my demons,I’ll be singing out loud to keep myself alive.
Music has been my only friend through my rise and fall. Music, I thank you for being there for me.

Gerald Adjei  ©2015

4 thoughts on “Music And Me.

  1. Hello Gerald,

    I am sorry your journey is so arduous at the moment. I am glad you have found solace in music, which does not surprise me as music stirs the soul to the highest of heights. Neurologists studying the brain have shown that the only time that the entire brain is completely interactive within itself is when it processes music. Every part of the brain is triggered causing neurons to fire in every single hemisphere simultaneously. It is a miraculous organ and music sets it afire.

    I love music because it can take you through time and space in an instant. A piece can awaken your soul, tickle your heart, or blow soft kisses upon your skin. It can ramp up your courage, fortitude, or bring fear and thoughts of fleeing. Music creates feelings or stirs memories bringing love, joy, sadness or perhaps cause a tear or two to fall. When going through hard times music can commiserate with us or work hard to bring a smile to our countenance. So, continue to submerge your consciousness within the delight of sound waves shaped to bring you joy. Allow your spirit to float away on the breeze of a whimsical piece whose sole purpose was meant to bring happiness and broad smiles. I would steer clear of the darker pieces for now as it sounds as if your spirit needs a bit of a lift. Mihran’s music is borrowed from Heaven’s angels so it is sure to bring you joy. Try to remember that the bumps along our journey may seem too much to bear or to be insurmountable but as long as you draw breath, there is always hope if you do not give up. Life is difficult, every step, but always remember the other side of pain, hurt, sadness and despair is hope, happiness, joy and release. Nothing, not even sadness, lasts forever even if it seems that way at the time. Be well Gerald and never relinquish your hope; instead, hold ever tighter to it as the times become harder. Have a blessed day.

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