(I need to say that FGM is a sin against humanity. It is a cliché, I know, but I had to say that anyway. We must know that not only does it break the confidence of women, it also breaks their souls. Please, if you are in a society where it is practised, educate the people on the need to leave souls untouched, in order for them to help the bodies grow. This poem is dedicated to all women who had to suffer through this canker. I need you to know you rock but you must help with your voices so that your children will not suffer same fates. Thank you.)
Their dream future is very bright
But they have been given such fright
Who butchers pleasure tools for love?
Who sees blood without looking above?
Who dares to hurt a pure white dove?
There are no sanitizers, let alone glove
A cut, pain, tears, and they are left
Yes, left maimed in inner souls
Bereft of hope for fulfilment
Could this be seeking equality
For pestles shaped to attract and fit?
Aren’t mortars perfect as they are?
Their imperfections grow with age
Why then must they be pushed to age?
My heart bleeds for you who weep
My soul hurts of all half yous
My voice will sing freedom for yours
In years soon to come
Just be assured
And free yourselves from the chains of shame
I care
And I know many also care
Amoafowaa Sefa Cecilia (c) 2014
(Inspired by fola’s blog on Female Genital Mutilation)
37 replies on “BLEEDING LADIES (A POEM AGAINST FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION)”
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Reblogged this on Looking for the Light and commented:
Let women have dignity and a future without pain.
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Tell the world again. Thanks for spreading the word.
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Hello dear friend
I strongly agree with you, it’s a crime, leaving women in pain and a loss of dignity. I would like to reblog your post to my site if you are okay with that. I have written about FGM in the past and many people had no idea.
Thanks
Melinda
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I’m okay with that. Thank you for spreading the word out there about it. Blessings.
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Have you ever contributed to Project Naked?
They share stories about women expressing relationships to their bodies. I believe you would identify with what that organization is doing and your words above would be welcome there.
I’m not affiliated with them in any way, but I’ve contributed to them myself and have been blown away by some of their contributions from around the world. I hope you will look into it as your piece just knocked me off my feet (and I’m already laying down).
http://projectnaked.wordpress.com/
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Wow! You surely are kind. Will look into it right away. Thank you very much. Blessings.
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Very inhuman and brutal act of treachery. Thank God its not in practice anymore
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It is dear Tanveer. Some are practising it. Today I read an article on it happening in Nigeria today. And I hear reports from that some villages practice it in some villages here. Such inhuman treatments.
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oh my God. How it be stopped?
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It may take a while but I know it will fade out if many voices echo. Many cover the practice because they feel it is a sacred religion. Barbaric.
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please tell me how can i raise my voice against this cruel act?
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By writing against it. You are a writer, that is your weapon. Help us send the messages out there. Once it gets to the people who are educated in their sect, we will capture their conscience.
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i will inshaAllah. may Allah help us ameen
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Ameen.
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Oh gosh
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Hmmm. The scream is necessary.
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Why is the scream necessary? It’s a sadist to do such acts.
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I know. But the scream helps us release some tensions which won’t go away anyway. It really is a sad issue.
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Not sad, but tragic. Why would some people do such a gruesome act?
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According to them, to make them sacred and faithful to their husbands.
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What will happen if the situation reverses? Will the men like it? They won’t!
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They won’t. But they also talk about the pain of circumcision. Sadly.
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Just stop all those ridiculous acts. Moral and ethical values are important to be inside and lived out.
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I wish I could stop it. I’m doing my bit to sound its barbaric trait and there are many others talking about it. It is our weapon now. Blessings.
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Blessings to you too
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Such a terrible thing…..and you illustrate that very well in words and image.
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Thank you Janet. It is such a disturbing canker, I’m ashamed of it. Especially because it mostly comes from my part of the world. Thanks for you voice. Blessings.
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Hard to believe this still exists anywhere.
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Yes, but it does. It seems it is connected to some culture so those involved do not want to heed to reason. It is sad. When I was younger, the same thing was done to one of my friends. We were in junior high school, and the poor girl was locked and sent to her husband’s house at the age of 13. When she told her friends that her mother was planning to do that to her, all of us were shocked. But her culture was different from ours and we were too young to help. So I know for a fact that it is still in existence because of the complains coming from the villages.
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I want to say that that’s a shame, but it actually is an outrage!
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It is an outrage and although we’re on the same continent, I know it is barbaric and inhuman. It’s a shame some refuse to listen to the voice of reason.
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I find it commendable that you do not condemn the woman who have had this done to them. Up until 30 years ago I was totally oblivious of FGM. I was aghast at the thought that anyone would have ever started doing this to young girl in the first place. It breaks my heart.
Honey
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Breaks mine as well. Thank you honey. Blessings.
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Yes…
It is beyond understanding.
It is beyond imagination.
It is beyond words.
Yet you express it so well. 😦
Oh for a world where words such as yours in this poem never need to be written again. 🙂
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Thank you very much. Blessings Lady, blessings.
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